So you have arrived in Oxford, tried the nightlife, had a beer in most of the pubs, been searching on websites for Kinky Life in this city, and so far drawn a blank?

So many people here : something must be going on?

Well yes, and this is your brief guide to Oxford Kinky Events. By necessity this is very short, as my main interest is Bondage, BDSM, Domination, Discipline and Sexual Control. However, my motto is :

"You can never have too many pervy friends"

Yes, there are people in Oxford into Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism, also known as D/s, CP, Master/slave etc. I make no distinction between the various shades of meaning between all these terms, as here, the main thing is : you want to know if it happens, where it happens, and how to get involved.

Yes, we do exist in Oxford! No, we do not all walk around in tight leather gear, collars, whips hanging from our belts. How should perves look? Totally normal, totally average well-adjusted folk, relaxed with their pleasure and virtually invisible. The guy next to you in the bar may be six foot tall, built like a brickie, and be utterly submissive in his private life. The cute little maiden may be a vicious Domme. We may not be easy to spot, amongst all the gothic and fashionable folk, but Oxford is not entirely unpopulated by bondage loving folk.

As far as I know at the present time, there is NO specific BDSM venue or regular meeting place. Unlike London, or Birmingham, where there are well known clubs and venues for Kink parties, Dungeons to hire, and private rooms for use to known people, Oxford is singularly lacking in this department.