| Switching
Hands by Alaine Hood
When
Melanie Paxton takes over as manager of a vintage clothing
shop in a small, New England Town, she makes the bold
decision to add a selection of sex toys and fetish merchandise
to her inventory. Sales skyrocket, and so does Melanie's
popularity, as she teases sexy secrets out of the town's
residents. It seems she can do no wrong until she enters
into an unorthodox domestic partnership with her former
college professor and his wife - both spanking fans. |

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the gossip starts - about Mel's wild past and her particular
experimental brand of sexuality. However she finds and
unlikely and very hunky ally called Nathan who works in
the history museum next door. The course is set for a
curious alliance - the sassy sexpert and the antiquities
scholar. (Click
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| Interview
with "A Dirty Shame" director
John
Waters' new comedic sex movie, A DIRTY SHAME, was slapped
with an NC-17 rating, in the aftermath of the infamous
Janet Jackson "boob incident" and simultaneous
conservatism spreading like wildfires in America. The
Catholic News Service criticized the movie for "almost
non-stop rough, crude and profane language, full frontal
nudity, sexual imagery, obscene gestures, scatological
humor, casual portrayal and descriptions of deviant sexual
practices, a glorification of freewheeling sex and some
sacrilegious imagery." |

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such a critique may seem like an artistic death sentence
to many film-makers, Waters was thrilled by the rave review.
He is probably having it framed and mounted on his living
room wall, as we speak.(Click
here for more) |
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| Black
Rose - Specialist gothic clothing store
Huge
Selection of Gothic Alternative and Fetish Fashions, at
very reasonable prices. Well known brand made with quality
and care. They are a specialist gothic clothing store,
selling goth, punk, fetish, rockabilly and alternative
clothing worldwide, from Camden Market in London. |

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have over 2100 garments, accessories and cosmetics available
on their web site, and a further 800+ items of jewellery.
They have an even greater selection of items in their
store, including Lip Service, Phaze, Omen and Ultratex
brands.(Click
here for more) |
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| Friday
the 13th - A night of Dance Macabre
Friday
the 13th - A night of Dance Macabre with STG, Cinema Strange
& The Sixth Chamber. |

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| Music:
Deathrock/GothicIndustrial/Darkwave
Where/when: Friday, May 13, 2005, The Derby, Los Angeles
Musical guests: STG / Cinema Strange / The Sixth Chamber
PLUS a special performance by Kitty Diggins! (Click
here for more) |
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| Gaynors
Goodies - Bondage Equipment & Fetish Clothing
Gaynors
Goodies - Your one stop shop for adult sex toys, lingerie
and much more - thousands of products in stock to choose
from
UK
gothic Fetish / fantasy / Gothic clothing site as well
as lots of toys and acessories. Discreet fast shipping,
orders over £25 are delivered free within the uk.
Most items are in stock so you can expect your items fast
which makes a pleasant change from the 3-6 weeks you can
normally expect to wait. |

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| Also
worth a look their new PVC range now comes in sizes up
to uk 26, along with a strong gothic collection.In summary
great prices for those must have staple fetish clothing
items.(Click
here for more) |
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Ways to Write Great Erotica
Erotica
authors "how-to" guide
Erotica
author and owner of Custom Erotica Source has written
an easy-to-read guide on the basics of writing erotica.
Comprehensive and concise, for novices and professionals
alike. Erotica author and owner of Custom Erotica Source,
Sage Vivant, has just published a writing guide for aspiring
writers in the genre. "Erotica is such a strange
beast," Vivant says. "If it's only about sex,
it's horribly dull, yet if there isn't enough sex, readers
will feel cheated. This guide helps you know how much
is enough." |

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guide, a concise but thorough 33-page PDF available only
through Custom Erotica Source, includes everything from
plot development to anatomy lessons. New writers won't
be intimidated by its easy-to-read style, and professional
writers will appreciate its candid approach to often tricky
subject matter. (Click
here for more) |
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Pucker
Up! - German Xploration Part 2
Fetish
Event Review by Tristan Taormino - Village Voice
Does sex have a universal language? Does
it everywhere embody the same strange combination of sacredness
and shame as it does in America? Does it wield the same
power throughout the world? Does the way it's taught and
learned transcend nationality, culture, and place? |

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One of the things that immediately intrigued me about
the three-day conference was the producers' plan to offer
classes on BDSM, sex, ritual, and spirituality. Very few
events in the U.S. dare combine sex and spirit. Fewer
invite folks from different sexual communities to come
together. So this cross-pollination of people and ideas
piqued my interest right away. (Click
here for more) |
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Pucker Up!
- German Xploration Part 1
Fetish
Event Review by Tristan Taormino - Village Voice
No matter how hot the erotic, decadent atmosphere of the
Kit Kat Klub, or how fabulous the Bob Fosse dance moves,
I know it's a limited view. When well-known German choreographer
Felix Ruckert invited me to Berlin, I was ready to pack
my fishnets based solely on the city's allure; when he
asked me to teach at a new event he had conceived, I was
on the plane. |

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Xplore 04: Extreme Sensuality, Sensual Extremes (xplore04.de)
was a weekend of classes on creative sexuality, spirituality,
and BDSM. It's a combination rarely seen in the United
States, where being into tantra and bondage tends to leave
one with split loyalties: Community events are increasingly
less inclusive and more niche-oriented. I wanted to see
how they mixed things up in a city known for being artist-friendly,
queer, and very progressive. (Click
here for more) |
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Erotic
Book Review - Five Minute Erotica
Edited
by Carol Queen, Published by Running Press
Reviewed by Chantelle
These stories aim to appeal to heterosexual women's sense
of erotic, but anyone who has paid one bit of attention
knows how diverse female desires can be. This book is
as diverse as I could make it, for as an editor I never
know for sure what will spark the hottest fantasy, make
a reader glow or dream.
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And that's the idea: to get you dreaming; not only the
dreams of the authors here, but your own. And if men like
this book too - well, why wouldn't they? All this talk
of Mars and Venus throws and eclipsing shadow of reality:
often we share erotic moments and desires, inspirations
quite happily. (Click
here for more) |
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